Turns on: It excites me to order me and tell me what to do, to handle and control my toy while I am very excited and I have multable orgasms. Turns off: I turn off that a boy is rude in my room, if you don't like it just get out of here, but don't come to say bad things here! Here are only good vibes.
Turns on: when a man treats me with trepidation and his actions and deeds makes it clear that I am special for him. Turns off: lies, arrogance, rudeness.